It Is Not His Castle, But His Personality!(Beauty and The Beast)

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I wrote this because I have seen some memes that turn to be insult for Belle, and well for women. And I hate those memes, those memes are like try to strengthen the bad image of women. Those memes tried to say that women is all about money. Women would not care about anything (including your look and temperament) if you have a castle. Dude, I believe the one who made that kind of meme is Gaston’s fans. Gaston’s fans who felt disappointed by the ending of Beauty and The Beast story, and Gaston’s fans who has no brain just like Gaston.

These are some memes I am talking about

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I Met Him

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It was in the middle of nowhere. Where I lay on the dirt with bunch of refugees. I was not dead, but I felt like one. Until I tried to reach a hand for the eyes I knew. The eyes who lied beside me . I smile but it remains the same. I touch his hand and he kiss my arm. He pulled me closer to his body. Try to heal my wound with his hug. I smile again, and again his eyes remain the same. Continue reading I Met Him

“No one will stay forever” (How to Deal with Breaking Up)

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So, it is so clear from the title. Yeah I will write a few things about breaking up and how to deal with it. As you all know, breaking up is not an easy thing. One important person left your life, one thing is missing, your schedule messed up because that person who used to fill that position has gone. And now you are confused what you should do about that missing part. That is just one aspect from bunch other craps you have to deal with breaking up. The memories, the love, and all the bitter sweet stuff.

1. STEP 1 : tips for breaking up Continue reading “No one will stay forever” (How to Deal with Breaking Up)

Diskriminasi pada Perempuan dalam Tes Keperawanan Calon Anggota TNI

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Perekrutan calon anggota TNI AL telah dibuka beberapa minggu lalu, saya tidak akan menyoroti mengenai tahapan-tahapan perekrutan satu persatu. Tetapi saya ingin membahas mengenai fenomena “tes keperawanan” yang dilakukan pada perekrutan calon anggota TNI. Hal ini dikarenakan hari ini adalah hari Kartini, dan mengingat semangat Kartini yang telah berjuang keras untuk kesetaraan gender di Indonesia maka saya akan membahas tentang salah satu praktek diskriminasi pada perempuan yang masih terjadi di Indonesia ini. Sebelum itu mari kita lihat apa itu “tes keperawanan” beserta tujuannya.

“Tes keperawanan” sendiri merupakan salah satu dari rangkaian tes fisik yang dilakukan untuk masuk sebagai anggota TNI baik Angkatan Darat, Udara, maupun Laut. Menurut data temuan Human Rights Watch (HRW) dalam BBC Indonesia (Mei, 2015) mengungkapkan bahwa “tes keperawanan” ini dilakukan dengan metode dua jari. Continue reading Diskriminasi pada Perempuan dalam Tes Keperawanan Calon Anggota TNI